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AAARRRGGGG! My Camera!

Posted by itsjusttoni on January 10, 2012

It amazes me how much I loved my camera! It was a gift from my son-in-law a few years ago for Christmas. I took it everywhere, especially when I travel. So I took it with me when I went to visit my daughters  and their families in Texas for Christmas. I noticed that the camera began acting a little odd while I was taking pictures of our traditional Mexican Chocolate party:

seems a little dark

But the next photo and several after it were okay:

When I got home I wanted to document how my little vegetable garden did with no care or water for almost three weeks:

Not too bad, except for the weeds!

But then, right while I was shooting, this happened!

What is happening?!

I thought it would recover again, but when I  went to photograph a recipe I was making for the Dark Days Challenge, here’s what I got inside the house:

Oh, the wailing and gnashing of teeth! The strange photos are kind of pretty in their own way but not what I want!

Guess I will be in the hunt for a new digital camera! Yes, another DIGITAL camera. I have an old manual SLR in my closet and I am pretty certain that I couldn’t get the film developed even if I wanted to use it!

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No, I am Not Afraid!

Posted by itsjusttoni on November 28, 2010

I think it is a good thing for Mr. M and I to visit the US occasionally, as we did for a few days last week. I like to spend time talking to perfect strangers during our visit. I find it absolutely amazing to discover how totally misinformed the ordinary citizen is about life in Mexico.

The conversation usually goes something along the lines of asking each other where the other is currently living. When I say Baja California, Mexico, a sort of shocked silence ensues. Then I am asked something like: “aren’t you afraid?”, or “Isn’t it scary/dangerous/life threatening there?” Every time, I happily explain that “No our lives are not in any more danger than if we lived anywhere, including the US.”

I always feel sort of like a good will ambassador for Mexico. I am here to tell you that if you use common sense and are not involved with narco-trafficking, the law, or politics here, you are relatively safe. As with any location there are areas in which one must use more caution and be aware of their surroundings. I grew up in San Diego and attended the lowest socio-economic area schools, so I learned how to navigate those areas. Common sense tells me not to be in certain areas of San Diego at night, and to avoid being ostentatious in my clothing, personal effects, or vehicle while I am there. These same common-sense rules apply to ANY area where the socio-economic levels are depressed.

I live in a Mexican community here in Baja. That is distinctly different than an “American” or “Expat” community here. My house and those of my neighbors are not part of a private, gated community. My home is a double wide mobile home. There is nothing fancy about it. I do have a large, edible garden surrounding my home, which is fairly unusual for this area. I do have a high brick wall surrounding the garden, which is common here. In other words, my home matches my community. It doesn’t stand out as a huge, fancy investment.

When I need something repaired, like my entire roof replacement recently, I ask my neighbors for a recommendation for a repairman. Our roof was replaced by my neighbor’s uncle and father. It is a win-win situation. I get a great, quality job (after all, I know where the repairman and his extended family live), and my money stays in the community and therefore benefits my neighbors. My neighbor can look at my roof with pride because her family helped me.

I can’t say I know everything about living here, but I am learning. I have been here for seven years and I am still learning the acceptable cultural ways to behave. I have found that even when I make a mistake the people of my neighborhood and community are generous and forgiving.

I am learning to communicate better as time goes by. I find it very amusing when I meet someone new and I speak to them in Spanish. There is always the same pause that allows them to align what I am saying with the fact that I am obviously an American. The next thing is usually a broad smile. It is a great ice-breaker! Even when I make a mistake in what I am saying they are quick to help me out without any judgment.

Living in Mexico is different! The joke here is that there is American time and there is Mexican time (you know, el mañana). If you live here for a while you will eventually become adjusted to Mexican time. It is a lot less stressful and relaxed. Which is a great description for how life is here.

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Its My Right!

Posted by itsjusttoni on September 11, 2010

I have been writing a lot about my canning kitchen lately, and not so much about other things that rattle around in my head. Today, I want to write about responsibility.

When my children were on the cusp of becoming teenagers, someone asked me if I wanted to raise my children to “be happy”. I thought for a minute and replied, “No, I want to raise responsible adults.” I believe that a responsible person has the tools not only to be comfortable with his or her own behavior but to contribute a positive environment for others. I believe that accepting responsibility for one’s actions is a vital component to exercising one’s rights.

I chose to write about this today because as an expat, I am close enough to the US to be concerned about what happens there, but far enough to see the societal hegemony and the Machiavellian workings of the media there.

Like many Americans, I can clearly remember exactly where I was on September 11, 2001. Driving in my pickup to class at Chico State, I heard the live broadcast as the planes hit the World Trade Towers. I thought it was a broadcast hoax, much like the War of the Worlds broadcast in the 40’s. (Not that I can remember that.) It wasn’t until I arrived at class that I realized it was an actual horrific happening.

In the years since, I retired here to Baja. I have written for two local newspapers oriented toward American expats. For one I wrote a local gardening column. The other, however, was like much of the US media, a scandal rag. The editor adhered to the US media mantra, “If it bleeds, it leads.”  So entranced with this idea, the editor eventually found it impossible to balance scandal reporting and enthusiastic advertisers. I had long since decided that irresponsible reporting was not for me.

I am first in line to respect the rights of any human being. I try very hard to view things on a global scale, not just an “American” viewpoint. Yes, the US constitution has “inalienable” rights, but with those rights there must be responsibility.

Just because one has the “freedom of speech”, one does not have the right to use it indiscriminately or selectively to injure others. That most powerful right carries with it the responsibility to be aware of the ramifications of that “speech”. The US media, as well as many Americans, seem to have lost track of this responsibility somehow. There is a definite line between responsible reporting and scandal mongering. I see this every day when the US media chooses to report on the violence that occurs in Mexico without offering an equal or greater exposure to the beautiful and pleasant aspects of this lovely country.

I am saddened to see that once again the US media is exercising its penchant to report in an irresponsible manner. There is a pastor of a tiny church in Florida who has received an inordinate amount of publicity for threatening to exercise his “rights to freedom of speech and religion”, by burning copies of the Koran. Instead of just being a small time radical ranting in a small area of Florida, this person and his threats have been elevated to a global incident. If the US media had not latched onto this threat and elevated it, would this have become such an international problem?  If this pastor had for a moment taken into account his responsibilities that accompany his rights to freedom of religion and speech, would he even have fomented this threat?

In this time of global unrest, I think that everyone must think globally and take universal responsibility for their actions. Just because one country has a constitution that guarantees “inalienable rights” to its citizens, does not mean that those citizens or their media outlets have the global right to disrespect others.

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